Question: I recently found out the password to my girlfriends e-mail, so I logged in and found some emails she had written to boyfriends in the past. We’ve been together for just over a year, and all of these emails were from before we got together. Am I crazy to be upset?
Answer: The short answer is YES, you are crazy to be upset. As you stated, all of the e-mails were before you were born so you have nothing to be upset about. You are crazy if you believe that your girlfriend did not have a life before you. You don’t need to know all of the details of her past relationships, but it is not something that should upset you as you had relationships prior to your girlfriend as well. You probably should just get rid of the password as it will probably end up causing more problems that good as you continue to check her e-mail for something that is not there. Let it go!